Many who read the article may find Mr
Wheatcroft’s seemingly fanatical collecting shocking, abhorrent and
disrespectful to the millions of people who suffered and died as a result
of atrocities ordered by a fanatical leader. And I can see their point.
To those of us who are related to AND
work with hoarders, the article gives an absorbing insight into a person who
demonstrates classic hoarding behaviour, and who has finally come to realise the burden
of his situation.
Mr Wheatcroft inherited his interest in
collecting (plus a construction business, properties and Donnington Park
Racetrack and motor museum) from his late father - Tom Wheatcroft - who rescued
Donnington Park Racetrack from closure back in 1971.
It just so happens that the main focus
of Kevin Wheatcroft’s hoarding (some may say it’s collecting) isn't something
that is as socially acceptable like things we see in the media or I see at my
client's houses such as newspapers, clothes, shoes, Star Wars models, Lego,
light bulbs, dolls house paraphernalia or Snoopy mugs.
Collectors generally proudly display
their collection, and may swap pieces and talk to other
collectors. Whereas people who hoard may feel shame, rarely allow others
into their houses and are less likely to talk about it.
I've come across loads of hoarders who
want to achieve what Mr Wheatcroft has said he wants to achieve – “saving” items for future generations to see, to learn about the past. Usually though,
my clients do tend to fill their homes with more mundane/less expensive or
exclusive things like newspapers or Royal Family memorabilia!
Mr Wheatcroft has the money, expertise
and inclination to bypass your average car boot sale, charity shop or skip and
go straight to the country of origin, shipping "treasures" back to
the UK by the container-load.
Unlike many hoarders, Mr Wheatcroft’s
hoarding habit isn’t so severe that it prevents or precludes the use of living
spaces for what they were designed for, primarily because he has pots of money
to continually buy more space (and probably have people to clear/clean up after
him).
Whilst Mr Wheatcroft’s acquiring habit
and difficulty discarding items may have caused or could cause significant
distress or impairment for him or his family members, the ones who are likely
to demonstrate the most about his collection/hoard are those who object to what
they perceive to be his glorification of an evil era by collecting artefacts
from it.
The general
characteristics of hoarding were recently
outlined in an excellent Hoarding Framework document written by a team
headed by the LOVELY Sally Savage of Nottingham Fire & Rescue
Service's Persons at Risk Team (one of my
colleagues on the Chief Fire Officer's Association's Hoarding Working
Group).
- Fear and anxiety: compulsive
hoarding may have started as a learnt behaviour or following a significant
event such as bereavement. The person who is hoarding believes
buying or saving things will relieve the anxiety and fear they feel.
The hoarding effectively becomes their comfort blanket. Any attempt
to discard the hoarded items can induce feelings varying from mild anxiety
to a full panic attack with sweats and palpitations.
- Long term behaviour pattern: possibly
developed over many years or decades of ‘buy and drop’. Collecting
and saving with an inability to throw away items without experiencing fear
and anxiety.
- Excessive attachment to possessions: people who hoard may hold an inappropriate emotional
attachment to items.
- Indecisiveness: people
who hoard may struggle with the decision to discard items that are no
longer necessary, including rubbish.
- Unrelenting standards: people
who hoard will often find faults with others; requiring others to perform
to excellence while struggling to organise themselves and complete daily
living tasks.
- Socially isolated: people
who hoard will typically alienate family and friends and may be
embarrassed to have visitors. They may refuse home visits from
professionals, in favour of office based appointments.
- Large number of pets: people who
hoard may have a large number of animals that can be a source of
complaints by neighbours. They may be a self-confessed ‘rescuer of
strays’.
- Mentally competent: people
who hoard are typically able to make decisions that are not related to
hoarding.
- Extreme Clutter: hoarding
behaviour may be in a few or all rooms and prevent them from being used
for their intended purpose.
- Churning: hoarding behaviour can involve moving items
from one part of the property to another, without ever discarding them.
- Self-care: a person who hoards may appear unkempt and
dishevelled, due to lack of bathroom or washing facilities in their
home. However, some people who hoard will use public facilities in
order to maintain their personal hygiene and appearance.
- Poor insight: a
person who hoards will typically see nothing wrong with their behaviours
and the impact it has on them and others.
For Mr
Wheatcroft, perhaps having the largest “collection” of Hitlers heads
in the world might be satisfying in one way, but frustrating in another as it's
not a COMPLETE collection - there are still others out there somewhere to be
collected. As a recovering perfectionist myself (as a result of being the daughter of a controlling hoarder with unrelenting standards), I can see where he might be coming from if this is the case.
Whatever his reasons, I'm glad Mr
Wheatcroft has finally realised that it’s time to find people to catalogue and
restore his hoard – I hope there are historians and museums queuing up to help
him achieve his dream of displaying this collection to future generations.
Perhaps having real-life tanks in his
garden reminds him of happy times as a child playing with Tonka toys, whilst sleeping in Hitler's bed makes him feel important and special.
I’m an
optimist, so I'd like to think Mr Wheatcroft isn't actually hoping that megalomania will
transfer to him from the bed whilst he sleeps, and he will go on to rule The
World as a result.
Instead, I wonder if his actions might
be subconsciously proving something to himself (and his late father):
- that he is free from the shadow of parental
control (where unrelenting standards no longer apply), and capable of
purchasing anything he wants without having to ask someone else for it. Or perhaps….
- that he is as good as (or better than)
his dad at collecting
We may never know - only his therapist
(or his professional organiser or the restorers or museum curators) may ever be
privy to that kind of information. Which is a shame because I'd love to know more.
